Joseph T. LaFave

Joseph T. LaFave, 70, of Watertown, NY, passed away on November 4, 2025, at his home surrounded by family. 

He was born on February 4, 1955, in Watertown, NY to Fred and Mary (Stebbins) LaFave. He was the sixth oldest of twelve children.

Joe graduated from Watertown High School, earned an A.S. degree in Math/Science from Jefferson Community College and a B.S. degree in Industrial Engineering Technology from SUNY Institute of Technology in Utica.

Joe became sober from alcohol in November 1989 and remained sober until the day he passed away. He was thankful to be given the strength to recover from alcoholism. Joe really enjoyed spending time on the St. Lawrence River where his favorite activity was fishing with family. He has worked many jobs in his life. Most of his job experience was with the New York Air Brake in Watertown, where he worked as a machinist, tool grinder, technical writer and process engineer. Joe was a longtime volunteer for the Volunteer Transportation Center right up until the day he was no longer able to drive.

A brief marriage resulted in the birth of two wonderful sons, Rodney and Lee LaFave, whom he loved very much. Joe met his life partner, Patricia Stevens, 40 years ago and loves her dearly. He had two stepsons, George and Sean Stevens, many grandchildren, and great grandchildren. Joe loved all his family very much.

Joe was predeceased by his parents, Fred and Mary (Stebbins) LaFave, sisters Sharon Graban and Joan Bennett, brother Paul LaFave, stepson George “Bubby” Stevens, nephews, Michael LaFave, William Derrigo and Steven Derrigo, niece Jena Graban, brother-in-law Norman Sero, and sister-in-law Judith Eves.

A celebration of life will be held at the Veterans of Foreign Wars, Post 1400, 231 Bellew Ave., Watertown, NY on December 6 from 1-4 pm.

Arrangements are with the Hart & Bruce Funeral Home. Online condolences may be left at www.hartandbrucefh.com

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to Hospice of Jefferson County or to the Volunteer Transportation Center.

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